We empower individuals, families, carers, professionals and organisations through learning, support, and purposeful programmes that inspire growth and create lasting impact.
31+Years in the sector
15+Years in care leadership
3Pathways to growth
100%Tailored support
Our MissionTo empower individuals, families, carers, professionals and organisations through learning, support, and purposeful programmes that inspire growth and create lasting impact.
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For Professionals
Training, leadership, Registered Manager support, social care development.
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For Organisations
Consultancy, staff training, programme design, service development.
From professional development to family support — our programmes are designed to meet you where you are.
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Training & Professional Development
The 3E Manager, Managing Made Simple, A Carer's Self-Love, Becoming a Registered Manager.
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Consultancy & Mentorship
Start or grow your care business, Social Care Leadership Mentorship, Organisational Development.
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Special Programmes
Moments for Me Wellbeing Spa Suite, Sensory Room, Sensory Garden, and Podcast Room.
Our Values
What We Stand For
Everything we do is guided by six core values that shape how we show up for every individual, family and organisation we serve.
Empowerment
Supporting individuals to take control and realise their potential.
Excellence
Delivering the highest standard in everything we do.
Inclusion
Welcoming and serving everyone, regardless of background.
Integrity
Acting with honesty, transparency, and accountability.
Compassion
Caring deeply for the people we serve and communities around us.
Community
Building meaningful connections and fostering a sense of belonging.
Ready to Take the Next Step?
Whether you're a professional, an organisation, or a family — we have a programme that's right for you.
About Us
Our story, mission, values, and the people behind the work.
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Our Story
Why We Do This Work
Aspired Learning and Lifestyle Ltd was founded with a deep belief that every individual has the capacity to grow, contribute, and live a meaningful life. We started this organisation because we saw a gap — people who needed support, learning and community weren't getting it in a way that truly met their needs.
Today, we work with individuals, families, professionals and organisations across the UK to deliver purposeful programmes that inspire real, lasting change.
"Every individual has the capacity to grow, contribute, and live a meaningful life."
Our Mission
To empower individuals, families, carers, professionals and organisations through learning, support, and purposeful programmes that inspire growth and create lasting impact.
Empowerment
Excellence
Inclusion
Integrity
Compassion
Community
Our Leadership
Meet Dr Karen May
A doctorate-qualified social entrepreneur with over 31 years in the sector — founder, care leader, educator, and coach.
Leadership & Founder
Dr Karen May
CEO & Founder — Aspired Learning and Lifestyle Ltd
A leading UK-based social entrepreneur, educator, and advocate for individuals with learning disabilities. Visionary founder of Abilities Development — a model adult day centre in London — and a lifelong champion for inclusion, independence, and innovation in disability support services.
Doctorate in Special Education31+ Years in the Sector15+ Years Care LeadershipFounder, Abilities DevelopmentSocial Entrepreneur
Karen founded Abilities Development, a pioneering adult day centre in London designed to empower individuals with learning challenges. Today it stands as a model of excellence, offering person-centred care, skill development, and social inclusion for clients across the borough.
Network of Supported Living & Respite Homes
From that first centre, Karen grew her vision into a network of supported living accommodations and respite care homes throughout London. Each home reflects her core philosophy: tailored support, high expectations, and dignity for every individual.
Doctorate in Special Education
Holding a Doctorate in Special Education, Karen bridges academic insight with hands-on care delivery. Her deep understanding of learning differences, neurodiversity, and inclusive education informs every aspect of her leadership, training, and advocacy work.
Aspired Learning and Lifestyle — Coaching the Next Generation
Through Aspired Learning and Lifestyle, Karen coaches new and aspiring entrepreneurs in the social care sector — particularly those looking to launch adult day centres, supported living services, respite homes, and inclusive community programmes.
Expertise Areas
What Karen Brings
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Academic & Practical Knowledge
A rare combination of doctorate-level insight in Special Education and over 31 years of real-world experience in the social care sector. Karen doesn't just teach — she has lived it.
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Coaching for Care Entrepreneurs
Tailored coaching programmes to help aspiring care providers navigate CQC requirements, staff recruitment, community integration, and service quality development.
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Inclusive Leadership & Neurodiversity
Karen believes in a world where neurotypical society uplifts those with different needs — not by exception, but by design. Her advocacy is practical, principled, and visionary.
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Proven Track Record
Founder of multiple thriving care services in London. Her strategic coaching provides personalised support to build sustainable, impactful care businesses.
Karen's Mission
Raising Expectations, Not Pity
Karen's mission is clear: to raise expectations, not pity — and to build a world where inclusion, independence, and innovation define the future of disability support services.
Her vision is of a fully integrated world that embraces neurodiversity, sets high expectations for all, offers practical scalable interventions, and breaks barriers between communities.
"Every individual has the capacity to grow, contribute, and live a meaningful life."
Why Partner With Karen?
Built on Trust
Proven SuccessFounder of multiple thriving care services in London.
Strategic CoachingPersonalised support to build sustainable, impactful care businesses.
Academic + Practical KnowledgeDoctorate-level insight combined with real-world experience.
Inclusive LeadershipAdvocating for neurodiverse inclusion and meaningful societal change.
Ready to Start or Scale Your Care Business?
Whether you're starting a day centre, launching supported living, or seeking a mentor — Dr Karen May is the expert to guide your journey.
Our Programmes
Training, consultancy, family and faith-based programmes designed for lasting impact.
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Training & Professional Development
The 3E ManagerLead with excellence, empathy & effectiveness
The 3E CarerExcellence in care delivery
Managing Made SimplePractical management skills for social care
Achieving with ExcellencePerformance and quality improvement
A Carer's Self-LoveWellbeing and resilience for carers
Authentic Care PlanningPerson-centred planning in practice
Becoming a Registered ManagerStep-by-step RM readiness programme
Consultancy & Mentorship
Start & Grow Your Care BusinessEnd-to-end guidance from concept to launch
Start a Day Centre ProgrammeFrom concept to operational day centre
Social Care Leadership Mentorship1:1 coaching for leaders & managers
Registered Manager SupportOngoing RM guidance & peer support
Organisational Development SupportStrategy, culture & service design
Family & Community Programmes
Calm Together with Karen MayEmotional regulation for families
Sensory Support for FamiliesPractical sensory strategies at home
Parent & Carer WellbeingSelf-care and support for those who care
Inclusive Learning & LifestyleEnabling participation for all
Faith & Inclusion
The Open ArmsChurch Disability Inclusion Programme
Inclusive Children's Ministry SupportFaith settings for all children
Disability Awareness for ChurchesTraining for faith communities
Special Programmes
Moments for Me — Wellbeing Spa SuiteTherapeutic spa experiences for wellbeing
Sensory GardenNature-based therapeutic outdoor space
Podcast RoomCreative voice and expression space
Find the Right Programme for You
Not sure where to start? Book a free discovery call and we'll guide you to the best fit.
Training & Courses
Professional development for carers, managers and social care practitioners.
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Course Overview
Learning That Transforms
Our training courses are designed for people working in or connected to the social care sector. Whether you're a frontline carer, an aspiring manager, or an experienced leader, we have something that will stretch and strengthen you.
All our courses blend theory with practical application and are delivered in a warm, inclusive environment.
Course details
DeliveryOnline, in-person & hybrid
DurationHalf-day to multi-week
Who it's forIndividuals & organisations
CPDCertificates available
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The 3E Manager
Lead with excellence, empathy and effectiveness. A transformational programme for social care managers.
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The 3E Carer
Equip frontline carers with the skills, confidence and values needed to deliver outstanding care.
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Authentic Care Planning
Move beyond tick-box care planning to genuinely person-centred, meaningful documentation.
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Achieving with Excellence
Performance improvement and quality assurance for care teams and service managers.
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A Carer's Self-Love
Wellbeing, resilience and self-care for people who spend their lives caring for others.
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Becoming a Registered Manager
A step-by-step programme preparing aspiring RMs for registration, CQC and leadership.
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Enquire About a Course
Individual or group bookings available. We can also deliver bespoke training for your organisation.
Consultancy
Strategic support for professionals and organisations in the social care sector, led by Dr Karen May.
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Featured Programme
Start & Grow Your Care Business
Dr Karen May's signature coaching programme for aspiring and established care entrepreneurs. Whether you're launching an adult day centre, supported living service, or respite home — this programme gives you the roadmap, mentorship, and confidence to build something that truly makes a difference.
CQC RegistrationStaffing & RecruitmentService DesignCommunity Integration1:1 with Dr Karen May
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Dr Karen May
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Leadership & Management Support
One-to-one mentorship and peer support for social care managers who want to lead with confidence and clarity.
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CQC Readiness
Prepare your service for inspection. We'll help you build robust systems, documentation and a culture of quality.
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Programme Design
Co-design meaningful, evidence-informed programmes tailored to the needs of your service users and staff.
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Organisational Development
Strategic support for care organisations looking to strengthen culture, improve outcomes, and grow sustainably.
Not sure where to start?
Book a free 30-minute discovery call with Dr Karen May and explore how we can support your goals.
Specialist Environments
Special Programmes
Purposefully designed spaces and experiences for wellbeing, sensory exploration, creative expression, and therapeutic healing.
Our special programmes go beyond the classroom — creating immersive, therapeutic environments where individuals can relax, explore, heal, and grow at their own pace.
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Wellbeing & Self-Care
Moments for Me — Wellbeing Spa Suite
Moments for Me is a dedicated wellbeing spa suite designed to give individuals a safe, nurturing space to truly rest, recharge, and reconnect with themselves. In a world that often overlooks the self-care needs of those with learning disabilities, carers, and marginalised individuals, this suite offers something profoundly simple — time just for you.
Each session is thoughtfully curated to offer calming, therapeutic experiences in an environment built around dignity, comfort, and personal choice.
What's Included
✓ Therapeutic spa treatments
✓ Aromatherapy & relaxation
✓ Personalised self-care sessions
✓ Mindfulness & breathing exercises
✓ Safe, calm, sensory-aware environment
✓ Individual & group sessions available
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Rest & Recharge
A peaceful environment away from daily pressures, designed for genuine relaxation.
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Dignity & Comfort
Every individual is treated with the utmost care, respect, and personal attention.
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Holistic Wellbeing
Addressing mental, emotional and physical wellbeing through gentle therapeutic experiences.
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Therapeutic Environment
Sensory Room
Our dedicated Sensory Room is a carefully designed therapeutic space that provides controlled multi-sensory stimulation for individuals with sensory processing differences, learning disabilities, autism, and anxiety. It is a place where the senses can be engaged, soothed, or stimulated — entirely on the individual's terms.
Used by individuals, families, and as part of structured programmes, the Sensory Room supports emotional regulation, communication, relaxation, and therapeutic discovery.
Who It's For
● Individuals with learning disabilities
● Autistic adults and young people
● Those with sensory processing challenges
● Individuals experiencing anxiety or stress
● Families and carers seeking support tools
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Multi-Sensory Stimulation
Carefully curated lighting, sound, textures, and visual elements tailored to the individual's needs.
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Emotional Regulation
A calming retreat that helps individuals manage overwhelming emotions and sensory overload.
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Person-Centred Sessions
Each session is adapted to the preferences, needs, and goals of the individual.
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Nature & Outdoors
Sensory Garden
The Sensory Garden is a beautifully crafted outdoor therapeutic space designed to engage all five senses through the healing power of nature. Filled with carefully chosen plants, textures, sounds, and scents, the garden offers a grounding, restorative environment for individuals of all abilities.
Horticultural therapy, gentle outdoor activities, and reflective time in nature are woven into our garden programmes — making it a place for growth in every sense of the word.
Garden Activities
✓ Horticultural therapy sessions
✓ Sensory plant exploration
✓ Quiet reflection & mindfulness
✓ Growing your own herbs & flowers
✓ Community garden & social activities
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Nature Therapy
Evidence-backed benefits of time in nature — reducing anxiety, improving mood, and promoting wellbeing.
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Horticultural Skills
Learning to grow, nurture, and care — building confidence, responsibility, and pride.
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Outdoor Community
Shared gardening experiences that foster connection, teamwork, and a sense of belonging.
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Creative Expression
Podcast Room
The Podcast Room is a creative, empowering space where individuals find and amplify their voice. Purpose-built for recording, storytelling, and self-expression, this studio gives everyone — regardless of ability — the tools and confidence to share their story, ideas, and experiences with the world.
From personal storytelling projects to community broadcasts, the Podcast Room is where confidence is built, communication skills are developed, and every voice is celebrated as worth hearing.
What You Can Create
● Personal story podcasts
● Community voice projects
● Advocacy & awareness recordings
● Creative audio storytelling
● Group interviews & discussions
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Find Your Voice
A safe, supported environment to build communication confidence and self-expression.
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Professional Studio
Quality recording equipment in an accessible, welcoming space designed for everyone.
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Share Your Story
Create content that can be shared with families, communities, or the wider world.
Faith & Inclusion
Open Arms Ministry
Open Arms Ministry is a faith-based inclusion programme dedicated to making worship and church life genuinely accessible and welcoming for individuals with disabilities and additional needs. Founded on the belief that every person — regardless of ability — has a place in God's house, this ministry equips churches and faith communities to become truly inclusive spaces.
Through training, practical support, and community building, Open Arms Ministry transforms how faith communities understand, welcome, and celebrate people with different abilities.
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Church Disability Inclusion
Helping churches create welcoming, accessible environments for individuals with disabilities.
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Inclusive Children's Ministry
Supporting faith settings to serve all children — regardless of ability or additional needs.
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Disability Awareness Training
Practical training for church leaders, volunteers and congregations on inclusion and accessibility.
Interested in Our Special Programmes?
Get in touch to find out more, book a visit, or discuss how these environments can support your needs.
Families & Carers
Practical support, sensory strategies, and wellbeing resources for families and those who care.
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Sensory Support
Understanding and responding to sensory needs at home, in education and in the community.
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Emotional Regulation
Tools and strategies to support emotional wellbeing for both children and their carers.
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Parent Empowerment
Building knowledge, confidence and self-advocacy for parents of children with additional needs.
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Home Strategies
Practical, ready-to-use strategies to support daily routines and reduce stress at home.
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Workshops & Coaching
Group workshops and 1:1 coaching for families navigating the social care and education systems.
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Resources
Guides, downloads and toolkits covering sensory needs, communication and wellbeing.
Join Our Support List
Stay connected with the latest resources, workshops and community events for families and carers.
Resources & Blog
Articles, guides and free downloads to support your learning and practice.
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Blog Topics
Latest Articles
Social Care LeadershipStarting a Day CentreSupporting DisabilitiesCarer WellbeingSensory StrategiesFaith & InclusionTraining & Growth
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How to Start a Day Centre in the UK
A step-by-step guide to registering, staffing and launching your day service.
Guide
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5 Ways to Improve Your CQC Rating
Practical tips for social care managers preparing for inspection.
Article
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Free Sensory Checklist for Families
Download our free checklist to identify sensory needs at home.
Free Download
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Carer Burnout: Recognising the Signs
Understanding compassion fatigue and how to protect your wellbeing.
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Inclusive Ministry: A Practical Guide
How faith communities can become genuinely inclusive for disabled people.
Guide
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Authentic Care Planning Template
A free downloadable template for person-centred care documentation.
Free Download
Events & Workshops
Join us for webinars, live training, masterclasses and community workshops.
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Upcoming Events
What's Coming Up
12Jun
The 3E Manager — Live Webinar
An introductory session to the 3E Manager programme. Online via Zoom.
Webinar
19Jun
Start Your Care Business — Free Workshop
Everything you need to know before launching a care service. Online.
Free
3Jul
Sensory Strategies for Families
A practical community workshop for parents and carers. In-person, venue TBC.
Community
17Jul
CQC Readiness Masterclass
Deep dive into inspection preparation and quality frameworks. Online.
Masterclass
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Host Training at Your Organisation
We can deliver bespoke workshops and training days at your location or online.
Our Impact
We are a growing organisation — this page will be updated with real stories and outcomes as our work develops.
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A New Chapter
Growing with Purpose
Aspired Learning and Lifestyle is a new organisation bringing together decades of Dr Karen May's experience. As we grow, this page will be home to real client stories, programme outcomes, and community impact. Watch this space.
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Share Your Experience
Have you worked with Dr Karen May, attended one of our events, or taken part in a programme? We'd love to hear from you and share your story here.
Our Foundation
Built on Experience
While Aspired Learning and Lifestyle is a new organisation, our foundations run deep. Dr Karen May brings over three decades of proven impact in the social care sector.
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Doctorate in Special Education
Academic rigour underpinning every programme and approach.
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31+ Years in the Sector
Nearly three decades of direct experience in social care and disability services.
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Founder, Abilities Development
A model adult day centre in London, launched in 2010 and still thriving today.
Be Part of Our Story
Join us on our journey. Whether as a client, partner, or supporter — you can help us build something meaningful.
Contact Us
Book a discovery call, send an enquiry, or join our mailing list.
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Send a Message
Let's Talk
Get in Touch
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Email
info@aspiredlearningandlifestyle.com
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Phone
Available on enquiry
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Book a Discovery Call
Free 30-minute call with Dr Karen May — no obligation.
Ready to work with Dr Karen May? Book your consultation directly.
Books by Dr Karen May
Thought leadership, practical wisdom, and heart-led insights from the founder of Aspired Learning & Lifestyle.
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Coming SoonISBN: 978-1-916567-00-1
New Release
Lead with Heart
Building Resilient, Impactful Teams in the Social Care Revolution
"Leadership in social care is not for the faint-hearted. It demands strength. It demands resilience. But above all — it demands heart."
In Lead with Heart, Dr Karen May draws on decades of experience to reveal a new leadership approach — one that blends emotional intelligence, structure, and compassion.
Through powerful real-life stories, practical strategies, and faith-rooted insights, this book will help you lead teams with confidence, build cultures of trust, navigate crisis, and develop people — not just manage them.
This book will help you
✓ Lead teams with confidence and clarity
✓ Build cultures of trust and accountability
✓ Navigate crisis without losing control
✓ Develop people — not just manage them
Social Care LeadershipEmotional IntelligenceFaith-Rooted InsightsResilient TeamsCompassionate Leadership
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About the Author
Dr Karen May is a heart-led CEO, mentor, social care leader, and special needs educator with over 30 years of experience supporting individuals with disabilities and building impactful services. As the founder of Aspired Learning & Lifestyle Ltd and Abilities Development Ltd, she is passionate about transforming leadership in social care through compassion, excellence, and purpose.
A story of faith, love and learning disabilities — for parents, carers and educators
"Your child is not a learning disability. Some children are labelled as defective or broken. But what if we saw them as the unique individuals they truly are in God's eyes?"
The Boy with the Stolen Voice tells the story of one boy and his parents' journey to help him become all he was created to be. Written by disabilities educator and activist Dr Karen May, this is a powerful and moving book that offers hope and encouragement to parents of children labelled with learning disabilities.
It proves that anything is possible if you have enough faith and determination.
What you will discover
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Deal with disappointment — Are you struggling to accept your child's differences? Feeling like you're all alone? Find direction and hope for better days.
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Help your child overcome biases — Learn how to help them fulfil their potential and overcome the obstacles the world puts in their way.
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See your child as God sees them — Be encouraged to raise your child with love and optimism, seeing their potential rather than their limitations.
Parents and carers of children with learning disabilities, educators and support workers, faith communities, and anyone who believes every child deserves to be seen, valued, and celebrated for who they truly are.
Experience simple, interactive ways to stay connected to God daily
"Simple, interactive ways to stay connected to God daily — because praise doesn't have to be complicated."
In ABC to Praising God, Karen N. May offers a beautifully simple and interactive guide to deepening your daily connection with God. Using the alphabet as a framework, this book makes praise accessible, practical, and joyful for everyone — whether you are new to faith or looking to refresh and renew your devotional life.
Perfect for personal devotion, family worship, or as a meaningful gift — this book brings faith to life in a way that is easy to pick up and impossible to put down.
This book will help you
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Build a daily praise habit — Simple A-Z prompts to keep you connected to God every single day.
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Make praise interactive — Engaging, practical activities that go beyond reading into doing.
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Stay connected to God — A gentle, joyful companion for your faith journey whatever the season.
Faith & DevotionDaily PraiseInteractiveChristian LivingGift Book
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Perfect for
Anyone looking to deepen their daily connection with God. Ideal for personal devotion, family worship, small groups, and as a thoughtful gift for friends, family, or church community members.
Watch This Space
More Books Coming Soon
Dr Karen May is a prolific author with more titles in development. Register your interest to be first to hear about new releases, book signings, and author events.
A professional-grade digital assessment platform built specifically for adult social care. The platform hosts three specialist assessment tools — ASIAT™, CARAT, and SLAT — designed to support person-centred planning and deliver meaningful, actionable insights for care professionals.
Built on the belief that every assessment should reflect the whole person — not just their deficits — this platform is transforming how social care professionals understand and support the people they work with.
ASIAT™
ASIAT™
Adult Social Independence Assessment Tool — measuring independence across key life domains.
CARAT
CARAT
Comprehensive Assessment and Review Analysis Tool — for holistic care planning.
SLAT
SLAT
Supported Living Assessment Tool — designed for individuals in or moving to supported living.
Social Care ProfessionalsPerson-CentredCare PlanningDigital Assessments
Life Skills App
My Visual Independence
My Visual Independence helps individuals with learning disabilities build confidence and real-world life skills through clear photos, voice guidance, and step-by-step visual instructions. From cooking and cleaning to exercise and daily routines — everything is broken down into simple, achievable steps.
Designed to promote genuine independence — not dependence on support workers — this app gives individuals the tools to do things for themselves, at their own pace, in their own way.
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Cooking
Step-by-step visual recipes with photos and voice guidance.
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Cleaning
Visual routines for keeping home spaces clean and organised.
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Exercise
Accessible movement and exercise routines for all abilities.
Life SkillsVisual LearningIndependenceVoice Guidance
My Genius is a simple, visual strengths discovery test designed for individuals with neurodiversity and learning disabilities. In just 5 minutes, users discover their natural genius type — shifting the focus from what they struggle with to what they are brilliantly gifted at.
Because every person has a genius. Sometimes it just needs the right tool to uncover it. This app embodies Dr Karen May's core belief: raise expectations, not pity.
